Dana, You never ever have to let Donovan go. Let Donovan in. He is with you and once you can see through the illusion of this physical plane, you will renew the seemingly broken connection with Donovan.
I know it sounds kind of mumbo jumbo, and a lot of the time when I’m in the midst of the negative
I feel the disbelief that they are actually with us. When I listen to people who have the experience of their loved one being with them in many different ways, then once again I accept that it’s not a fairytale.
We need to learn the signs they are sending us and to acknowledge it when we see them. I’ve been told that this way Donovan will know that what he is doing to try to get you attention is working and he will do more of “it”.
I know we want them where we can hug them and see them as they were. In a way it feels like a booby-prize to be able to only see or feel or sense them in these other ways, but it does ultimately mean that THEY ARE . And that we can learn to reach them and them us.
That is no small thing, no?
You are doing all the right things, you can’t do anything that is wrong. Just be who you are and eventually it will get better and clearer and wlll bring what it is supposed to bring.
Sending you wishes for many blessings recognized.
Erika
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